Jenna Romano Nieva, LMFT #120837

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Mental health services in schools are not a panacea, but they can make a difference. Though funding needs abound, it is disappointing when schools reallocate funds from such an important intended purpose. How can we support local decision-making by schools, while also making mental health services accessible to the kids who need them the most?

"Thank you for that gift." Performing artists are asked to give a lot of themselves, onstage and off. The courage it takes to be truly vulnerable is tremendous. Frequently, however, artists are pushed to open themselves up in environments that are less than emotionally safe. While working through past trauma via your art can be a powerful experience, directors and actors alike are sometimes ill-equipped to navigate the delicate issues that arise. How do you make sure that you protect and honor your soft spots? They are what make your work so beautiful, but they do not have to be harnessed in a way that hurts.

https://www.theguardian.com//crisis-touch-hugging-mental-h "By watching the nerve’s discharge behaviour while the skin is stroked, scientists have learned that the optimum speed of a human caress is 3cm to 5cm a second. This may sound like a diverting snippet of touch trivia, but its application is far-reaching. When a parent strokes a child, for instance, 'they are writing out the script that was laid down by 30 million years of evolution,' McGlone says. 'We are destined ...to cuddle and stroke each other at predetermined velocities.'" Our bodies are DESIGNED for physical connection! Touch has a profound effect on our mental well-being. Is such a fundamental need now relegated to a privilege enjoyed only by kids and lovers? I'm put in mind of the "romantic friendships" of yesteryear--those old-timey pictures you see of friends sitting on each others' laps. Of course, LGBTQ+ individuals are no doubt represented among such photographs, but it is striking that there was a time when physical affection between friends didn't raise any eyebrows. How much are we missing out on if our opportunities for platonic touch are now so limited? On the other hand, the modern era's sensitivity to physical boundaries has been an understandable and important response to the long history of sexual violations that plagues us still. Is it possible to make touch safe again?

Juggling all of the demands of life takes its toll. Forget about not having enough time to get everything done--sometimes our emotional energy just gets spread too thin. How do you keep the list of to-dos from snowballing so you don't feel so overwhelmed? Since I started working with the body in therapy, I have found inner resources that allow me to set boundaries with people and focus on each task without feeling out of control. These "boundaries" are not just mental; by... learning to actually feel a sense of containment in my body, I am able to keep my nervous system in check while I take care of business. The embodied mind is an incredible thing! Insane how we have managed to create such a dichotomy of mind and body in Western culture. Let's change that!