Pearl Essence

Do you feel like people understand you? I find that people often have an inner-conflict around being understood. On one hand, there is the desire to belong, be accepted and feel safe. And on the other hand, there is a need for boundaries from people/things that have made us feel unsafe at some point in our life. Within this boundary, we gain a greater sense of identity and alignment with our values. Our ability to know who we are is partly based on our ability to keep ourselv...es separate from others. And we usually keep ourselves separate form others by criticizing directly as well as projecting it onto others. I've had many clients who are reluctant to acknowledge that people can and do understand them. This impacts their relationships in so many ways. To be truly understood is a gift and to deny it is not only rejecting another person, but themselves as well. Greater understanding comes from allowing ourselves to be understood. There are many beliefs tied-up in this dynamic relating to safety, self-worth and what it means to be grounded in the human body. And while there may truly be people in your life that do not understand you, the possibility is there. It is always a choice. Do you struggle with feeling understood? If you would like some help unraveling this dynamic in your relationships (intimate, family, professional) and creating greater connection and satisfaction, I'd love to connect with you. #thetahealing #thetahealing #biofieldtuning #floweressences #coaching #communication #wisdom #trust #relationshipcoach #energyhealing

Where is your power? I know that my power is in my understanding. The degree to which I am powerful is proportional to the degree of my understanding ( of myself, my client, the world, etc.). I also differentiate 'understanding' from 'knowing.' There is something fixed and rigid about 'knowing' that doesn't lend itself to creating power in a person. It is almost like the knowing controls you and tells you where to go. 'Understanding' is more of a relationship between you and ...someone/something that progresses and goes deeper the more you pursue it. And while I've always known it is generally best to refrain from telling clients what they "should" do, it used to worry me that I didn't always know. But then I realized that my 'understanding' was the catalyst, not my 'knowing' and that only with my understanding am I able to empower my clients to access their worth and potential. #thetahealing #thetahealing #floweressences #biofieldtuning #wisdom #energyhealing #selfworth #possibilities

So what is Biofield Tuning? And what does it have to do with coaching? Biofield Tuning is a sound healing modality that I incorporate with other techniques to help people gain insight and regain the physical energy to take action. It uses tuning forks in the bioelectric and subtle field around the body to simultaneously detect and correct incoherence. The subtle field actually manifests much like the rings of a tree. It is a record of your life and the tuning fork is the need...le. So when you're feeling blocked in an area of your life, it is often because of something that happened in your past. And with the tuning forks, I can help you reorganize the energy of that event. And even more fascinating is that this same approach works with relationships, projects, daily routines, sale of a house, etc. etc. What area of your life would like to get tuned? #biofieldtuning #resonance #soundhealing #thetahealing #thetahealing #floweressences #coaching #insight #newwayforward

Have you ever been in a situation where you embarrassed someone? Did you feel embarrassed too? Yarrow essences all have to do with protecting our boundaries. In... particular, pink yarrow grounds empathic people in their own energy and helps them discern and feel their own emotions as an anchor rather than being bombarded by other people's. Without these boundaries, a person can feel over-responsible or even react from another person's emotions. I recalled a memory from my childhood today that reminded me of this very clearly. I was dealing with some health issues regarding my optic nerve. But despite having an optic nerve tumor, I had and still have, 20/20 vision. I remember one of the parents approached me with a lot of sympathy, assuming that I was blind! I gently let her know that I was fine and didn't need her help because I could see. I was instantly overcome with a feeling of humiliation that was mirrored on her face. It is very uncomfortable for children to feel the emotions of adults. And in that moment #, I learned that it was bad to tell people uncomfortable truths and that it was my job to protect them. As you can imagine, this did not serve me very well because people deserve the truth and they deserve to speak it. Are you withholding truth in your life?