Megan Paige

Don’t have any expectation or intention of finding the partner of your dreams when going on a date. Go on your date prepared to have fun. The key is to make all your interactions enjoyable, so think less of what you expect of the person you're meeting, and think more about what makes you comfortable. #relationship #tips #date #love #datingcoach #relationships #relationshipcoach #relationshipadvice #lovecoach #loveadvice #datingtips #relationshiptips

Eating chocolate makes you feel good, even euphoric. But the aphrodisiac qualities of #chocolate are more about the sensual pleasure of how it melts in your mouth than as a sexual stimulus. So take time to let the food melt in your mouth or you prefer wine as a dessert, try sipping it slowly. What is your preferred aphrodisiac? #relationship #tips #date #love #datingcoach #relationships #relationshipcoach #relationshipadvice #lovecoach #loveadvice #datingtips #relationshiptips

Today I want to share with you something that has helped some of my clients while finding a partner online. Creating a strategy! Yes, you heard that right. Limit the back and forth text messaging to 4-5 exchanges, and then propose a video or a phone call (I recommend video call). This will allow you to see the person, their facial expression, and it will give you an opportunity to talk about something in real-time. Once you have a primary video call you can both decide whet...her you should meet offline or not. Because remember: When on a date make sure it’s something you enjoy so you won’t feel like it’s a waste of time. #onlinedating #date #love #datingcoach #relationships #relationshipcoach #relationshipadvice #lovecoach #loveadvice #datingtips #relationshiptips

Sometimes women are feeling fed up emotionally. We really do. So folks, find out her love language and start to do those things to increase the physical bond. #lovelanguage #relationship #date #love #datingcoach #relationships #relationshipcoach #relationshipadvice #lovecoach #loveadvice #datingtips #relationshiptips

#Teamwork sits alongside trust communication and tolerance as a building block of the best relationships. Teamwork is not What can I get out of this relationship? It’s What can I bring to this relationship to make it better? -Zero Dean Adding value will increase the success of your relationship. #relationship #date #love #datingcoach #relationships #relationshipcoach #ecec #relationshipadvice #lovecoach #loveadvice #datingtips #relationshiptips #onlinedating

So you’ve scored that first date and things are going well. You’re really wanting to kiss her before the date is over What are some ways you go in for that first kiss? Many of my clients ask for guidance on this topic and he’s what I suggest. let her know you’ve been thinking about what it would be like to kiss her. Ask if she thinks that’d be ok? ... don’t go into an awkward kiss because you’re not sure it will be reciprocated. Let the energy build throughout the date and tune into your body’s intelligence to navigate a potential kiss. flirt with her and let her know you’d love to kiss her before the end of the night, Lean in and ask should we do that now or later? Women want to be desired so let her see your interest and let her know you’re wanting to experience her lips on yours. I find asking and knowing what you want to be a real turn on #lips #kiss #liptechniques #escalation #tuneintoyourbody #datingtips #datinggoals #connection #askfirst #verbalcommunication #bodyawareness #datingwin

Yes! You’ve got the match! Now what? Here are 5 ideas for conversation starters to get the connection going: Check out the person’s profile you’re messaging and comment on something they shared that resonates with you Easy one- How’s quarantine going?... Compliment the person you’re messaging on something you find appealing Ask if they might be interested in checking out your profile bc you noticed theirs said (blank) and you think you might be a good match Say something funny- getting someone to lol is always a winner! #conversationstarters #onlinedating #relationshipgoals #datingapps #tipsandtricks #beauthentic #couplegoals #lookingforsomeone #intimacy #connection

Writing your bio can be the trickiest part of putting together your online dating profile. In my 6 Session Online Dating package, I work with my clients to create a bio that is fun, honest, and sexy! Here are my tops Do’s and Dont’s for writing your bio: DO be honest about what you’re wanting from your profile DON’T try to say what you think people want to hear DO include how you like to spend your time so the person viewing gets a sense of what connecting with you woul...d be like DON’T hold back about what’s important to you right now #onlinedating #datingcoach #profile #dosanddonts #datingapps #onlinedatingfail #tipoftheday #connection #relationshipgoals #honesty #intimacy

Less than 5 seconds! That’s all the time you have to make your first impression and grab their interest on your online dating profile. Obviously, your profile pictures are SO important Here are some tips to keep in mind as you put together your online profile. Want more specific feedback? I work with clients personally on their profile pictures in my 6 Session Online Dating Package and have seen an over 75% increase in responses from it. If you want to know more, DM me... #onlinedating #datingcoach #picturetips #firstimpression #relationshipgoals #relationships #couplegoals #onlinedatingfail #datingapps

The first session of my 6 Session Online Dating Package is all about getting to know you and discovering the best parts of you as a potential date, lover or partner I work intimately with each client to explore what you want from a relationship and how to present yourself online so you attract more like-minded leads. We explore your previous dating and sexual experiences, relationship patterns, and any negative emotions that are holding you back from getting exactly what you want. This is one of my favorite sessions as I love to get to know new people and guide you to the kind of fulfillment you never thought possible #dating #datingtips #datingcoach #relationships #growth #knowyourself #learnaboutyourself #transformation #selflove #selfcare #fufillment

My work with clients is often simple let’s invite fun into the bedroom. Fun can mean anything feeling confident and in your body, being able to bring pleasure to your partner, bringing toys into the experience, or playing with fantasy and role play. It's important you can have fun and feel connected with your lover before, during and after the experience. My biggest tip here is to talk to your partner. Set up a safe and open space to talk about what you want. Talk about h...ow you want to feel, what you want to see, hear, taste and smell. Ask for what you want and make eye contact. It can be nerve wracking to ask for what you want and you might feel silly or shy. Take some deep breaths before opening up a conversation like this. I recommend discussing this in a non-sexual situation like during a nice meal or when you’re out for a walk. Want more help? Register for a free discover session at meganpaige.com

This pandemic had me down halfway through this year. I started out strong, but like so many of my clients, friends, and family, this has been a hard time for me. This is me on my first trip since January of this year. I’m with my Dad in Maine under the most incredible night sky I’ve ever seen. We can see the Milky Way I’ll post what it looks like in my stories. I can't recommend enough to get out into nature and tap into the rhythms and desires of your body. This is the sk...ill you need to be a great lover and we all get there in different ways. Find something that slows you down and helps you be more aware of your heart and body. Make it a practice and do it consistently and intentionally. So grateful to be away from CA right now but sending love to all my family, friends and clients #selfcare #bepresent #appreciate #grateful #travel #sendinglove #noticeyourself #slowdown #maine

Dating Profile Photo Advice Make sure you have a photo of you smiling. Limit selfies to 1-2.... Wear something you feel amazing in (fav shirt, great dress, colorful hat) Don’t be afraid to show your personality through your pictures Post a photo that’s meaningful to you for a later conversation starter If you don’t have photos you like, put yourself in an environment you feel your best in and start taking pictures using the timer setting or have a close friend or loved one take them for or with you.

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Your partner wants to make your body feel amazing. They become excited and aroused when they know you’re satisfied. Yet some people often shy away from talking about what gets them aroused, which is totally normal. I encourage you to tell your lover what you like, ask your partner what they want, and talk about your fantasies. Listen when your partner withdraws, when they moan, and what makes them escalate.

Sex starts with a look, then a touch. I’ve found that one of the obstacles for people trying to get better at sex is the rush to finish. Slow down and breathe. Talk to me. From being open about your fantasies to practicing masturbation, take time to discover your physical and emotional needs. I’m invested in helping you master these skills to create the best sex of your life.

Being great at sex takes some research and exploration. Empower yourself by getting out of your head, be open to trying new things, learn what gives your partner pleasure, and become curious about yours and your partner’s responses and sensations. This practice is really what makes someone a good lover. Kenneth Play, referred to as The World’s Greatest Sex Hacker isn’t good at sex because he won the genetic lottery. He’s good at sex because he’s worked at it. That’s the ultimate takeaway: Good sex is about arousal and pleasure more than it’s about penetration.

Hey sexy people! Tell me -- What is the sexiest quality about you? Let’s celebrate ourselves, our bodies, and our desires today! #sanfrancisco #relationshipdevelopment #lover #vulnerability #play #explore #intimacy #connection #breathe #enjoythemoment #sexyfun #openup #onlinecoaching #datingcoach #celebrateyourself #loveyourself

It’s a question people have been asking for centuries and many come to me searching for the answer how can I get better at sex? The truth is we’re all born great lovers., Sometimes all we need is a little guidance through practical and experiential exercises to fully embody this side of ourselves. Through discussion, practice, visualization and roleplay, I can guide you to better sex. Visit the link in my bio for more information! #sanfrancisco #relationshipdevelopment #lover #vulnerability #play #explore #intimacy #connection #breathe #enjoythemoment #sexyfun #openup #onlinecoaching #datingcoach

When you work with me to overcome sexual performance anxiety, I recommend these tips: Masturbate Before the Date. Masturbating before a possible sexual encounter takes the edge off and helps you be more in your body, which is attractive to potential lovers. You might still hope the date turns into a sexy evening, but because the body has had its release, your energy can come across as more relaxed.... Practice Yoga. Yoga taught me to synchronize breath with movement. One technique I’ve used is Ujjayi breathing, also known as "ocean breathing, and my clients have found this technique helps with performance anxiety in heightened sexual situations. Spend Some Time with a Sex Coach. Relational and interactive therapy from someone who understands performance anxiety can help you harness your sexual power and overcome fears ranging from body image to doing it right. Exploring the way you experience arousal as well as stress in a relaxed, safe place is helpful to my clients. The body starts to have more pleasant and erotically flowing experiences and then takes that into dating and sexual moments. If you’re ready to overcome your problems with performance anxiety, call me or find me online. I approach therapy from a science-based perspective, using body-centered sex therapy to help you feel more confident and comfortable during all your sexual encounters.

Tell me what is your love language? We all experience love and care in different ways and this is completely normal. I often see misunderstanding surrounding this in relationships. It can seem like our partners don’t care or understand us when in reality, they just experience love differently. The 5 love languages are: Words of Affirmation... Acts of Service Receiving Gifts Quality Time Physical Touch Talk to me about how you experience love! Leave your comments below

The first step to improving your sexual skills is by knowing and owning what turns you on. While it may seem counterintuitive to be thinking about yourself to get better at pleasing someone else, there are two reasons why knowing your turn-ons and core desires makes you a better lover. First, when you know how to tell your partner what you like, it puts them at ease and helps them open up. By creating a safe space, you’ll invite the opportunity to be more in the moment and ...present in your body, and in turn relax and enjoy yourself. Second, when you know your own desires, you’re better at noticing your lovers, and this creates a more pleasurable and connected experience. Want some more guidance? Schedule a session with me at meganpaige.com

Vulva Art by Betty Dodson Betty Dodson is an incredible artist, teacher and has been the pioneer for women’s pleasure since the ’70s. She takes shame out of sex and self-pleasure, and encourages women to celebrate their bodies. She’s 91 and currently in the hospital due to organ failure transitioning from her life here on Earth. She and women from all around the world are inviting us to send her our powerful orgasmic energy. Today I want to appreciate and celebrate this incredible, fearless women for all she’s contributed to the world of sex education Let’s send Betty some orgamsic healing energy now during her transition. Much love to you always, Betty