The New Monogamy

I'm excited to be doing this course with the Art of Living Retreat Center!

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Quick video for a quarantined Friday night.

You don't become monogamous with one commitment ceremony. Just because you say "I do" one time doesn't mean you automatically become monogamous. Both poly and mono and all the spaces in between are a decision you have to make, maybe every day. Some days are harder than others.

COMPLIMENTARY INTENSIVE WITH DR. NELSON FOR DOCUMENTARY Part2 Pictures, an award-winning TV production company based in New York, is currently developing a documentary with renowned journalist Lisa Ling about marriage, female infidelity and what it takes to stay together, through thick and thin. We are looking for the story of a wife who had an extramarital affair and now wishes to repair her marriage by going to couples counseling with her husband. The goal is to show that t...hrough hard work with a professional, couples can re-define their relationship. Lisa is known for her compassion, sensitivity, open-minded and respectful approach. Identifying information like names can be altered for privacy concerns. If you are interested in participating, I am offering a free complimentary intensive in my Santa Monica or New Haven, Connecticut office. UNSURE? Please send an email ASAP! All inquiries will be kept confidential

Don't be a scrooge. Cheating is common around Christmas. Here's my advice on ways to prevent an affair around the holidays.

Your relationship agreement can be anything you want it to be. Don’t let anyone label you or tell you what you should call yourself. You get to decide. It’s a new world. A new relationship every day between you. A new monogamy can be anything you want it to be.

https://youtu.be/gsU34wZzYSA Check out my podcast episode on The New Monogamy at TSWL

Ever want to revenge cheat? Does it work? Read my interview.

Cheating website Ashley Madison gets the majority of its traffic from states that voted Republican in recent elections, a study finds

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"Then they send you a selfie." https://lttr.ai/GB2T

Facebook won’t let me share the link to my Trouble with Sex podcast. This is the trouble with Facebook.Facebook won’t let me share the link to my Trouble with Sex podcast. This is the trouble with Facebook.

"It’s super scary to leave a comfortable relationship even if it’s not fulfilling, even if we become unhappy or close to miserable." https://lttr.ai/FT8g

"Then you will be empowered to share with your romantic partners what you want and need in the bedroom." https://lttr.ai/FN4i

"I’m so inspired by the words of wisdom from Cyan Banister, a young woman who went from high school dropout to successful, self-taught engineer, entrepreneur, and angel investor." https://lttr.ai/FEAG #RelationshipTips

"Recovery from infidelity has three phases: the crisis, the insight, and creating a new vision." https://lttr.ai/EIIY

Gender is a polynary. It’s a playground. Kate Bornstein

"Go inside your own mind and imagine your whole body filled with pleasure." https://lttr.ai/DqxX

"Keep the conversation focused on the basic information about the affair." https://lttr.ai/DXoq

A year ago we published "WHAT IS THE FUTURE OF MARRIAGE?" https://lttr.ai/DCd2

"Resentments can get in the way of feeling loving or sexy toward your partner." https://lttr.ai/C1hL

https://www.wellandgood.com/good/how-to-deal-with-jealousy/

"The problems start when you don’t know how to express negative feelings about your partner's behavior and you turn a disagreement into an argument and it escalates, turns hurtful, and then turns into a fight." https://lttr.ai/CtCH

"Up to 75% of all women have experienced some form of pain during sex." https://lttr.ai/CatH

A year ago we published "Do You Struggle to Find Sexual Partners?" https://lttr.ai/CXwO

"What many people don’t realize is that sharing fantasies can often re-ignite the passion in a long term relationship." https://lttr.ai/CLXe

"Lots of people are embarrassed by how they handle these parts of their lives, and may have shadow areas around money and sex from the past." https://lttr.ai/CDQT

Why would I write a book about told from the cheater's perspective? About the cheating side of affairs? Told for and by and through the infidelity paradigm of the one who cheats? Because everyone needs to know that the truth is non-negotiable. The truth is the focus of all of our lives. The truth is our direction. The truth is the way we grow toward the sun. And grow up. And the truth is DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE. There is no one truth. Buy the paperback copy of the book today and win a chance to meet with me - a free online coaching session. Go to Amazon.com and search for "When You're the One Who Cheats." Contest runs through May, 2019. Details of contest available upon request. #thereisnoonetruth #thenewmonogamyTEDx

The New Monogamy - redefining your relationship agreement.

Recording THE TROUBLE WITH SEX podcast in the studio.

In case you missed it, I wrote this article last year: "How Emotional Risk-Taking Can Lead to Better Relationships" https://lttr.ai/Agfd #emotionalrisks

I’m at 1440 Multiversity. California teaching a retreat taking a Deep Dive Into the Spirit of Intimacy - what an amazing place.

"By learning to focus on what we do or say and how we react will help to change to improve our relationship." https://goo.gl/3TsD9g #RelationshipTips

"If your spouse is willing, find a couples’ therapist who specializes in treating infidelity to work with the two of you to move you into a new and more sustainable monogamy that works for both of you." https://goo.gl/F37sh4

"Technology is also often blamed for a reduction in the amount of direct conversation people have and the attention they give to one another." https://goo.gl/UoSktf #DateNight

"No matter what type of relationship you choose, your agreement should be explicit and consensual." https://goo.gl/JGCvpV #Monogamous

Shannon found out her husband had an affair, but reacted with unexpected kindness. This story is an interesting case study of what happens when infidelity is approached with a desire to understand and rebuild trust, instead of a need to vent anger.

"The first thing to do to begin teaching kids about consent is to model the behavior." https://goo.gl/QuyKk9 #sexed

"What you are about to tell them will undoubtedly be hurtful." https://goo.gl/F37sh4

"This affair means something different to them than it does to you." https://goo.gl/F37sh4

"Upon awakening, before you even open your eyes, begin your morning by compiling a list in your mind of TEN things you are grateful for." https://goo.gl/izyV5X

"The technology that has changed us from simple breathing sacks of flesh into high tech digital humans may be the same type of obsessive tech attention that will soon turn our sexuality and our erotic selves toward...robot sex partners." https://goo.gl/aqq8vh

"To have a good relationship, figure out what you need, and what your partner needs, and in what area." https://goo.gl/egAwGm #RelationshipTherapy

ICYMI: I recently published the article, "How to Tell Your Spouse About Your Affair Five Things to Think About" https://goo.gl/F37sh4

"How You Can Reverse a Sexless Marriage" https://goo.gl/VNnGXD #DateNight

"What Turns the Friendship into an Affair?" https://goo.gl/aGu4GC

How to Tell Your Spouse About Your Affair Five Things to Think About https://goo.gl/F37sh4