Lauren Searles

Performance anxiety is a very uncomfortable topic for men to discuss, but the truth is almost every man has experienced it at one point in his life. I was a guest on Leading Edge Love radio, and Sumti Sparks and I have an in depth talk about open relating, how to navigate triggers, why men get performance anxiety, and how women can support their partners through gaining their sexual confidence again. Usually when men call me they think there is something wrong 'down there...'- not realizing there could be many compounding emotional and psychological reasons why their cock is not getting hard and staying hard. I give insights into this topic, and it might not be what you 'think!' If you're a heart-centered man, and you're not sure why you're not able to have strong, consistent hard-ons, and you'd like to deepen your ability to have deep, intimate and long lasting relationships, then listen on. If you're a woman interested in the topic, then please have a listen, or send to someone you think it could help. Here is the link to listen to the show online: http://tobtr.com/11894081 I'm still offering 2 spots for a Passion Breakthrough session with me if you're wanting to create lasting sexual confidence so you can have the sex and love life you desire: https://calendly.com/loveangelcoaching/75min?month=2021-03 To limitless, beautifully expressed sexuality, Lauren the Love Angel

Today at 6pm PST I will be on Leading Edge Love Radio, interviewed by Sumati Sparks, I am elated to be speaking about Tantric Sexuality, why so many men struggle with performance anxiety, and how to overcome it. The link is in the first Comment below.... Leading Edge Love Radio airs LIVE (almost) every Tuesday evening at 6pm pacific time. Then it rolls over to a recorded podcast. If you'd like to ask me a question live call (657) 383-1132 between 6:30-6:45.

Want to have a better S3X Life? Developing Embodied Presence is a SUPER POWER of Magnetism, Healing and Attraction Embodied Presence is the first step, the last step and interwoven into every moment of the rest of your life.... It's What your Lover Deeply Craves. It’s beyond the breath, although that can be a gateway to presence. So what does this mean? It means cultivating a loving, conscious and compassionate Presence for ALL OF YOU to sink into. It means you always have a safe place for your inner hurt little girl/boy that didn’t get enough love and acceptance. It means all parts of you are welcome within this presence. It means that you can hold your body shame, regret, disappointments, and doubts about your confidence because there is a presence within you that can hold it all. Embodied Presence also means deeply feeling every sensation, both physical, and emotional. It means being available for ALL of it. ALL of life, and your experience of it. ALL of the wild feminine both in a Lover and Within your Self. The feminine in the body of the Earth. You become available for ALL of LIFE, and Awakening to your True Essence. You become available for all the juicy sensual, erotic and vulnerable experiences of love making. Which when this Presence is deeply felt in the body, it is a SUPER POWER of magnetism, connection and attraction. It's actually what we all deeply crave in a sexual experience, and really all of LIFE. To be SATIATED by the depth of Presence. So the next time you’re struggling, take a deep breath and follow the exhale deep into the wisdom of your own body. Sink down and IN.... Deeper In. That’s where your lover wants wants you; all the way INTO your body. With yourself. With HE (or HIM!) Feel all there is to feel there. And is there a part of you that can breathe acceptance, love and compassion into the pain? Can you actually cuddle up with your shame and say, you have a place here, too. If you’re feeling joy, then can you become even more present with the sensation of Joy? Can you turn it up ans allow yourself to feel how GOOD you can feel? These are lifetime concepts, and the moment to start this cultivation is the eternal moment of Now. To your awakened, embodied and thriving S3Xual Self dear Soul!! The Love Angel

Women crave your Embodied Presence - why this is the crucial first step to Awakened Eros So you’ve heard about Tantra, and you are curious to learn more. You’ve read The Power of Now and you think you’re on your way to becoming a present, awakened man and lover! ... The first step to being truly embodied and present is to reconcile parts of the false self, old conditioning, and old patterns that are stuck in the body. This process is an ever unfolding journey, but if you want to be truly present - that means having access to your True Self. It means shedding old definitions of what it means to be a man. It means releasing religious conditioning around sexuality It means healing your core wound, or at least in the process of tending to it. From there you can develop embodied presence (the ability to be awake and alive in every cell of your body, available for intimacy, vulnerability, as well as reading/dancing with another’s body in s3x and intimacy) through many different modalities. It’s about bringing the awareness in your mind (A Shiva like quality) down and into your body (Shakti the feminine principle.) The first step is to approach the body (and other’s bodies) with gentleness, or loving kindness. No change or connection is going to happen from a rigid or judgements stance. I guide my clients through the process of focusing to bring awareness to all the subconscious parts of the body/mind. This brings integration and healing to parts of you that you may not be aware of! Yoga and meditation- yet this depends on the state of your awareness and what you’re focusing on. Vipassana is rooted in tracing sensation and highly effective at developing embodied presence. Dance!!! This is a way to bring fun and play into your spiritual practice, to allow music to move your soul and to express emotions! It’s a great way to get out of your head and Into your body! To develop Embodied Presence, you need to put self-connection first on your to-do list! To Your Potential, The Love Angel #mensempowerment #tantra #embodiment #presence #lover #king #menssexuality #health #potential

Men; Are you able to express your sexual desires to your partner? There is a theme that I see come up with men: Their personal integrity doesn’t always match up with their sexual desire. ... Meaning they have made relationship agreements that don’t encompass all of their sexual desires, and they often want to explore outside of the relationship in order to get their needs met. Or explore in a more adventurous way with their partner, but their partner isn’t open to it. So they’re at a standstill; they don’t want to cheat on their partner, or leave their partner, but not being able to pursue their own sexual desire is crushing them inside. If you feel stuck, or have a lack of energy and vitality, listen up. This could be affecting every area of your life; health, relationships, and performance at work. If you aren’t able to be fully sexually expressed, then it will eventually cut off your connection to your life force, drive and passion for life! You see a primary pillar for men’s health and vitality stems from his relationship to his own sexuality; how much of it is he able to express, experience, and feel. It’s a major stress relief for him; it’s how he may connect to the divine, his own masculine eros, and to feel his heart, and maybe even a sense of surrender. But what if your partner is unavailable, or you don’t have a sexual partner? Tomorrow I’m going to give you the 4 steps to start aligning your integrity with your sexual desire.

Let's talk about Emasculation. Cock Shame. Has there ever been a time in your life when your Cock wasn’t ‘working’?...Continue reading

In this live, you’ll learn WHY it's VITAL to anchor into Love, Safety and Belonging in order to THRIVE in your Relationship, and.. it also helps build new neural pathways in the brain, which help end addictive habits and behaviors that no longer serve you! Type the word Meditation below to be sent my FREE audio practice on how to Anchor in Love, Safety and Belonging into the nervous system. ... It will be sent to you via my messenger Bot All my Love, Lauren

( ) ’ , ! I speak to many men who are trying to quit their porn habit as they see and feel that it robs them from true intimacy, and is taking more out of them than what it is giving to them. Most men I speak to developed their porn habit when they were teenagers, and maybe have never stopped since. Or perhaps just intermittently, but started back up again soon thereafter. ...Continue reading

( ) ’ , ! I speak to many men who are trying to quit their porn habit as they see and feel that it robs them from true intimacy, and is taking more out of them than what it is giving to them. Most men I speak to developed their porn habit when they were teenagers, and maybe have never stopped since. Or perhaps just intermittently, but started back up again soon thereafter. ...Continue reading

Celebration! I have just finished teaching the 6th module in the Kings of the New Earth course, where 10 brave men signed up to embark on this evolutionary journey. They have been doing the deep work, sometimes digging into uncomfortable places, in order to serve their highest Kingly Embodiment, mission and vision on Earth. ... I'm just in such awe and celebration of these men!! We just finished the POWER module, and I have to say that I'm seeing reflections of the Divine Masculine shine through in such unique ways through each of these men. The way they're showing up. Their willingness to dance with the Shadow, and claim parts of them that have been dismissed, disowned, or rejected. The way they're no longer giving their power away by trying to get love or validation by trying to be the Hero. Owning their boundaries and their sovereignty. No longer willing playing small, or to sacrifice their voice in order to please their partner. They're sitting in the seat of their integrated, loving and firm Power- because parts that used to be deemed 'not ok' are now welcome in their being. When we go into our pain, we retrieve the Gold. And a special thank you to our Container Steward, Ray Mata for holding such immaculate space, and deepening the strength of the circle. Looking forward to what the next month will bring in this sacred circle!

Celebration! I have just finished teaching the 6th module in the Kings of the New Earth course, where 10 brave men signed up to embark on this evolutionary journey. They have been doing the deep work, sometimes digging into uncomfortable places, in order to serve their highest Kingly Embodiment, mission and vision on Earth. ... I'm just in such awe and celebration of these men!! We just finished the POWER module, and I have to say that I'm seeing reflections of the Divine Masculine shine through in such unique ways through each of these men. The way they're showing up. Their willingness to dance with the Shadow, and claim parts of them that have been dismissed, disowned, or rejected. The way they're no longer giving their power away by trying to get love or validation by trying to be the Hero. Owning their boundaries and their sovereignty. No longer willing playing small, or to sacrifice their voice in order to please their partner. They're sitting in the seat of their integrated, loving and firm Power- because parts that used to be deemed 'not ok' are now welcome in their being. When we go into our pain, we retrieve the Gold. And a special thank you to our Container Steward, Ray Mata for holding such immaculate space, and deepening the strength of the circle. Looking forward to what the next month will bring in this sacred circle!

I am deeply grateful for my Love Coaching experience with Lauren. Our journey together was approximately a 4 month process. Although I have a great career, I felt I was missing something but didn't know what it was. Through Lauren's coaching sessions, we journeyed together into what I wanted. She led when I was unclear on where to go and held space for me to discover for myself. Her coaching felt safe while being challenge that allowed for growth. Through that time, I contro...lled how deeply I wanted to go. If I was willing to open up in complete transparent vulnerability, Lauren exactly where I was at. She allowed me the space to lead and explore my own self. Ultimately my greatest discovery is how important taking care of my sexual energy is. As a man, there is no greater fulfillment than knowing that I can fulfill the sexual needs of the women in my life. Lauren helped me rediscover the sexual passion in me, how important it is to me, and how it affects how I live my life. When this energy is present, I am unstoppable. When it is not, I feel unfulfilled and energetically fatigued. It is almost like my soul itself is tired and not interested in living out my life's purpose. I have realized that only I can turn on this sexual drive within me. The answer and the almost magical piece of my life's puzzle that I was looking for was to both embrace and honor my sexual energy and then to pour and penetrate this energy into the cup of the woman of my choosing. Any man who desires to experience a rejuvenation of heart, body and soul through sexual energy and vitality would be well served to allow Lauren the opportunity to guide him through his own personal discovery journey. It happened for me, and I know she will do the same for you."- Abel C You can have breakthroughs like this, too!! To book an Embodied King Breakthrough call with me, see my link in comments below. No risk, no selling, just focused on providing a breakthrough for you!

I had an enlightening conversation today with Gabriel Keczan, a wholehearted Coach and Somatic therapist that offers so many unique perspectives. We dove into the power of initiation and the Vision Quest, and why it's so important for men to find their Purpose, and bring it out into the world. His work is deeply inspiring, I hope you enjoy this conversation!... To apply for the Vision Fast retreat, go to his website here: https://www.gabrielkeczan.com/mens-vision-fast-july-2020-1

DEAR EROTIC BEINGS OF LIGHT AND SHADOW, You think you love yourself, right? Self-love is not about being happy all the time, taking excellent care of yourself or even believing that you’re lovable. ... It’s about embracing all the parts of you that you deem unlovable. It’s about getting real with your shadow, your triggers and projections. It’s about integrating them with all the parts of you that already make you happy. Every trigger inside of you is a sign of an unhealed wound. It’s a signal from your subconscious body-mind that there is still more to integrate. Furthermore, what we suppress just grows inside of us, and if we haven't healed our sexual shame, and don’t feel 100% aligned with our sexual impulses and desires, then it is subtly RUNNING (and possibly ruining) your s3x life. Do you want something that is INVISIBLE and SUBCONSCIOUS getting in the way of what you want in the bedroom?! Definitely NOT. It’s imperative to do shadow work so ALL PARTS of you are expressed, healed and integrated so you can have access to your True Erotic Power. Love your shadowy shit. That’s when love gets real. To your Darkness My Love, Lauren

Tonight at 7:30pm - The 3 Untold Truths to Becoming an Irresistible Lover (for men) Tonight you will Learn; The Power of your own loving presence!! Why healing your inner child is THE secret to healing from ED and other body-mind issues! Being an Irresistible lover means healing from the inside out. ... Learn the Holistic s3x tools that every lover can apply to have an elevated love life! Which Masculine archetype you can embody to empower your confidence in the bedroom and beyond! Link in comments to register

Dear Divine Gentleman, When you deepen into your Masculine Core, you strengthen your commitment to your Purpose, and the way you Penetrate Her. Unfortunately men are silently suffering from erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety, PE, and generally want to learn how to last longer, and become masterful over ejaculatory choice. ... Let's take these issues out of the closet, and into the light. For one night only, I’ll be sharing the 3 Untold Truths of Being an Irresistible Lover- When: Tuesday, June 9th at 7:30pm PST Where: Register here: http://www.awakenederos.com/webinar I believe in life you deserve to have amazing sex and relationships, but because of so much societal conditioning and shame, unmet needs, and unconscious wounding around love and bonding, we are left in the dark how to create our ideal sex lives. I’m here to support and help gather the men that want to shift that, and empower them to embody their masculinity, and penetrate the world and their woman with their potent-cized presence! You can have the satisfying work life, woman and awakened sexuality that you deserve! Through these 3 Untold Truths you will learn: - How to activate your Divine Masculine Power, and heal from the wounds of the past. - Draw her Powerfully Towards You, generating chemistry and magnetism. - Activate your Soul’s unfulfilled Purpose, so you can serve the world, and make a greater impact. Nothing is more attractive than an embodied man who is committed to living his Purpose every day. For one night only, you’re invited into this sacred container for men who want to fully claim their sexual power, and shift the old patriarchal narrative- and powerfully lead others into the New Earth, where all of life can not just survive, but thrive! Join this Masterclass, and get the 3 Untold Truths of Becoming an Irresistible Lover - and just for signing up, I’m offering a free BONUS meditation called Ampify Your Presence where you’ll learn tantric techniques for lasting longer, and having more soul-connected sex! Sign up here: http://www.awakenederos.com/webinar Sincerely, Your Love Angel Coach

The 3 Untold Truths to Becoming an Irresistible Lover Learn how to Awaken Your Passion, Amplify Your Divine Masculinity, And Activate your Soul’s unfulfilled Purpose!... Sign up with this link: http://www.awakenederos.com/webinar MASTERCLASS DESCRIPTION: When you deepen into your Masculine Core, you strengthen your commitment to your Purpose, and the way you Penetrate Her. Unfortunately men are silently suffering from erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety, PE, and generally want to learn how to last longer, and become masterful with their energy. , Let's take these issues out of the closet, and into the light. For one night only, I’ll be sharing the 3 Untold Truths of Being an Irresistible Lover I believe in life you deserve to have amazing erotic adventures relationships, but because of so much societal conditioning and shame, unmet needs, and unconscious wounding around love and bonding, we are left in the dark how to create our ideal love lives. I’m here to support and gather the men that want to shift that, and empower them to embody their masculinity, and penetrate the world and their woman with their potent-cized presence! You can have the satisfying work life, woman and awakened sensuality that you deserve! Through these 3 Untold Truths you will learn: 1. How to activate your Divine Masculine Power, and heal from the wounds of the past. 2. Draw her Powerfully Towards You, generating chemistry and magnetism. 3. Activate your Soul’s unfulfilled Purpose, so you can serve the world, and make a greater impact. Because nothing is more attractive than an embodied man who is committed to living his Purpose every day. For one night only, you’re invited into this sacred container for men who want to fully claim their power, and shift the old patriarchal narrative- and powerfully lead others into the New Earth, where all of life can not just survive, but thrive! Lauren Searles Tantric Love and Relationship Coach for Men http://www.awakenederos.com/webinar

Are you ready to create long-lasting intimacy, call in your beloved and leave performance anxiety behind? Do you have a grand vision for your life but struggle to realize your full potential? Are you a heart-centered man that sees the problems of the Earth, and wants to leave a massive IMPACT in the world?...Continue reading

, . The amount of childhood trauma, pain, and abuse that men go through is astounding, and on top of it they are taught to NOT cry, not show weakness, to get over it, and move on. If we are going to progress as a species on this planet, the perpetuation of men to needs to stop....Continue reading

Why it’s Vital to Find and Live your Soul Purpose Now! Drop the word PUROSE below, If you’re an evolutionary man committed to his soul purpose, and I’ll PM you a free GIFT in your inbox! Finding your purpose is fully sinking into the present moment and letting reality manifest through you as a gift to all. -David Deida ... It is my soul purpose to awaken men to their Sexual Power and Divine Masculine Essence so they can give truly give their Soul contribution to the world, their family, and their Beloved. We cannot afford to go back to sleep anymore, and check out. We, as a species need to passionately prioritize checking in with all parts of ourselves. Our own survival depends on it. The Answers are truly found in the body. When we are in alignment with our soul purpose, there is an inner sense of wholeness and satisfaction inside that is undeniable, that flows out to all of the lives that you come into contact with!

Women deeply crave your Divine masculine presence What is Embodied Presence? - Softened in your body, receptive in your heart, but your impenetrable spirit being channeled vertically from Heaven down to Earth She wants to feel divinity through you... -You are the pillar of lightning she wants to plug into Shiva-Shakti Story -We want to be truly Seen, heard and acknowledged, but don’t try to fix our problems- DIVINE WITNESS- your gaze with full presence will melt her! -We want to be truly FELT - body, mind, soul, emotions, all of US -We crave to be taken, guided and led deeper than we can take ourselves - both sexually and spiritually! -You are the positive polarity that super charged her negative pole, and when alchemized properly, the spark creates true magnetic fire! HOW to deepen your masculine presence? -Get intimate with the feminine inside of your own body (the feminine is the changing principle of the body!) One way is to start to FEEL your body in new ways, Sit with yourself for 5 min a day, just tracking your own sensations and emotions. -Start to HEAL any unprocessed emotions, blocks and barriers to LOVE -Start to become vulnerable and allow yourself to be seen- -Acknowledge your own Shadow, Masks and Fears to True Intimacy -If you want the method that I give to all my male clients to start deepening into their body, hit PRESENCE below and I’ll PM you the free gift!