Kim Von Berg

"In the many years of working in the field of helping people in their relationships, I mainly see people relating to one another from one of three ego states: the critic, the wounded child or the conscious aware adult. When we can be in our aware self, it often helps the other person to go to this state as well - and THIS is where the greatest of relationships can happen. Hint how to get into this state: hold yourself & the other with unconditional positive regard." - Kim Von Berg #extraordinaryrelationships #healthyrelationships #longlastinglove #thrivinglovingrelationships #comingfromtheadult #awareself #joyfulrelationships #dramafreerelationships #kimvonberg www.kimvonberg.com

How do relationships affect your vitality? I reveal this - and the secrets to what YOU can do to attract & create a healthy thriving relationship in the interview I just gave on the tele-summit RADIATE! Alana Fournet asks probing questions to dive into this topic deeply. All of the interviews on RADIATE exploring vitality are available for FREE until April 21st, so sign up to hear my interview & many other prodigious experts in the field of health, wealth, and relationship...s! Free ticket here: https://buff.ly/3sht4Ev If you experience low energy part of the day, or all day, then you’re missing some of the juice you need to thrive. Sign up NOW to find out how to access this juiciness: https://buff.ly/3sht4Ev #Radiate #RadiateEvent #love #energy #energyexpert #relationshipexpert #thrivinglovingrelationships #kimvonberg

Kim Von Berg explains more what it takes for an extraordinary relationship to blossom: "We all have an 'Aware Self' inside us - that part of us who is wise, empowered and able to come from the heart. When two people can live from their Aware Selves, they can relate to each other in more expansive ways - and embrace their own and the other's best selves. It is HERE that we can go from a so-so relationship to an extraordinary one!" #awareself #consciousrelationships #wiseadult #thefoundationtoanextraordinaryrelationship #extraordinaryrelationship #thrivinglovingrelationship #kimvonberg www.kimvonberg.com

Do you find yourself not having enough energy in the day - and wish you had more? And, how do your relationships, finances AND health relate to your energy? If you experience low energy part of the day, or all day, then you’re missing some of the juice you need to thrive. Join me for a unique event, Radiate, where you'll meet a variety of experts highlighting uncommon ways to boost your energy naturally. We're covering everything health, wealth and relationship related, bec...ause these are the areas that tends to drain our energy the most! Free ticket here: http://bit.ly/RadiateEvent Join me and 17 other experts discussing ENERGY with Alana Fournet during a unique event, Radiate! And, my live interview will be this coming Tuesday, April 13th at 5pm PT / 8pm ET. http://bit.ly/RadiateEvent #Radiate #RadiateEvent #love #energy #energyexpert #relationshipexpert #thrivinglovingrelationships #kimvonberg

How can we even choose to create a conscious loving dynamic relationship? Kim Von Berg: The more we can live from our true empowered wise & worthy self - the adult aware self - the more we can choose to create with our beloved a beautiful thriving evolved partnership. This aware self is able to be magnanimous in the face of misunderstandings - and when our own self-valuing and self-worth get shaky, we can comfort ourselves and remind ourselves of the REAL truth of how wonde...rful we truly are & take action steps to demonstrate this to ourselves. We can step into holding ourselves with unconditional positive regard no matter what is happening in our outer world. And, we can then give the gift of holding our beloved with unconditional positive regard as well, opening up possibility for creating an extraordinary relationship. #unconditionalpositiveregard #adultself #awareself #selflove #consciouslove #extraordinaryrelationship #dynamiclovingrelationship #thrivinglovingrelationship #kimvonberg www.kimvonberg.com

The practice of Tonglen is extremely helpful if you are ever challenged by overwhelming emotions.

Nobody can MAKE you think or feel anything! Nobody has that much power! If you get triggered by your loved one, this means that his/her behavior or words must be touching an old wound of yours. This does NOT mean that his/her behavior is necessarily acceptable or that you should just put up with bad behavior. But, when you are triggered, you need to take care of you first - AND THEN, you can address this behavior from your wisest most empowered part of you! #gettingtriggered #takingresponsibilityforyourfeelings #emotionaltriggersinlove #knowinghowtoaddressbadbehavior #takingcareofyoufirst #healthyrelationships #longlastinglove #thrivinglovingrelationships #kimvonberg www.kimvonberg.com

Happy Holidays, friends! I would like to share with you - as my holiday treat - my interview that has just been released in which I reveal many gems about what it takes to have a LASTING thriving love relationship. I focus on the key communication skills - especially how to set boundaries in a way that actually deepens the connection! I was interviewed on the prodigious podcast, The Lovers’ Lounge by podcast host, Teena Love. This was a follow-up interview to one that ...I gave several weeks ago. CLICK BELOW TO LISTEN!!! Available on Apple, Spotify, Stitcher, iHeartRadio and YouTube! Apple episode: https://buff.ly/3rukAL5 Spotify episode: https://buff.ly/3rmyUoD iHeart Radio link: https://buff.ly/2WDLRw7 #kimvonberg #extaordinaryrelationships #CommunicationSkills #healthyboundaries #setboundaries #settingboundaries #thrivingrelationship #healthypartnership #ThrivingLovingRelationships

I had the honor of being interviewed by Teena Love on The Lovers' Lounge this week. Teena focused her interviewing questions on how I help couples - so they can learn what it takes to have a LASTING healthy thriving loving relationship! During this interview we discuss: Deep Listening Skills Setting Boundaries... Addressing Unwanted Behavior Identifying Triggers Operating out of an "Aware Self" and more... Teena has scheduled me for a Part 2 interview to continue this discussion on Dec. 21st. In the meantime, enjoy Part 1: **** at either iTunes: https://buff.ly/2W4mp2z **** or at Spotify: https://buff.ly/3namvSi #kimvonberg #teenalove #extaordinaryrelationships #CommunicationSkills #ThrivingLovingRelationships