East County Family Law Group

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Think it's all about the Kardashians? Think again. Here are 10 awesome TEEN ROLE MODELS. Let's hope these are the kids our kids are looking up to today. ... #teen #rollmodels See more

As a Divorce Attorney, I see couples who I can't divorce fast enough. There are others who, if they had some critical skills, like those listed here, might have fared better. #divorce #estateplanning #wills

The CO TRUSTEE has its benefits: Nominating successor co-trustees reduces the risk of mismanagement and waste. The standard beneficiaries of nearly all revocable trusts are children, so by nominating the children as co-trustees, this allocates authority equally to all the children. Hence, a single child cannot unilaterally wreak havoc because there are other co-trustees to check their authority. This sentiment has been specifically expressed by past clients.... #estateplanning #trusts #wills

When creating your ESTATE PLAN, do you establish a SINGLE Trustee or CO Trustee? Many clients opt to choose a single trustee instead of multiple co-trustees as a successor. One of the reasons why a single successor trustee is preferable is due to administrative reasons. The general rule in California is that co-trustees must reach a unanimous decision when exercising their powers. ... #wills #tursts #estateplannig

It's like ice cream. 2 funny divorce memes is better than one...

A little humor goes a long way...

HAPPY 4TH EVERYONE! HAVE A GREAT DAY!!

The washing machine phantom strikes us allllllll.

Here is Part3 of our 3part D-I-V-O-R-C-E Series... DOMESTIC PARTNERSHIPS... Federal law does not recognize domestic partnerships for most purposes, such as Medicare, immigration law, veterans' benefits, and federal tax laws. Domestic partners may be recognized for some federal purposes, such as Social Security. ... Talk to a lawyer if you are ending a domestic partnership and any of these issues may apply to you. #divorce #wills #estateplanning #amthor

If you're a fan of #GOT, you'll get this one!

The Universe has a purpose for us all.

Part 2 of our 3part D-I-V-O-R-CE Series... California is a no fault divorce state, which means that the spouse or domestic partner that is asking for the divorce does not have to prove that the other spouse or domestic partner did something wrong. To get a no fault divorce, 1 spouse or domestic partner has to state that the couple cannot get along. Legally, this is called irreconcilable differences.... Then, find a beach. The beach makes everything better. #divorce #wills #estateplanning #amthor

This week, let's run through the BASICs of D-I-V-O-R-C-E. So, there are 3 main ways to end a marriage or registered domestic partnership in California: divorce, legal separation, and annulment. It is not necessary for both spouses or domestic partners to agree to end the marriage. Either spouse or partner can decide to end the marriage, and the other spouse/partner, even if he or she does not want to get a divorce, cannot stop the process by refusing to participate in the cas...e. If a spouse or domestic partner does not participate in the divorce case, the other spouse/partner will still be able to get a default judgment and the divorce will go through. #divorce #wills #estateplannign #amthor

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Who’s going to go through your dresser drawers? Who will care for your beloved cat or, more importantly, your dependent children? #estateplanning www.eastcountyfamilylaw.com

Do you care if the most important person in your life receives anything you may have of value, or are you okay with having the state decide how to divvy up your stuff? Proper Estate Planning assures that your stuff goes to your most important people. #estateplanning www.eastcountyfamilylaw.com

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY so it's time to ROCK OUT for DAD! #dadsong #fathersday ... .

Estate Planning can be overwhelming and very very confusing. We are here to guide you through the process with confidence and care. Here are some pretty good basic tips. Note that CA rules might vary. #estateplanning #amthor #ecflg

Contemplating DIVORCE? A married couple or registered domestic partners can end their marital status in California 6 months after the first papers are filed at the courthouse and copies of these papers are served on you... #divorce #nofaultdivorce #cadivorce #ecflg #amthor

In a DIVORCE, the property and debts part of a divorce or legal separation is often so complicated and the cost of making a mistake is so high that you should talk to a lawyer before you file your papers, especially if you have anything of value (or if you have significant debt). Keep in mind you may not need to hire a lawyer to take on your entire divorce or legal separation, just the property and debt portion of your case. #divorce #ecflg #amthor

Are you contemplating Divorce? Know the facts. There are 3 main ways to end a marriage or registered domestic partnership in California: divorce, legal separation, and annulment. It is not necessary for both spouses or domestic partners to agree to end the marriage. Either spouse or partner can decide to end the marriage, and the other spouse/partner, even if he or she does not want to get a divorce, cannot stop the process by refusing to participate in the case. ... If a spouse or domestic partner does not participate in the divorce case... #divorce #defaultdivorce #amthor

Women in Pakistan are furious about the Wife Beating Bill... The bill is part of a proposal by the Council of Islamic Ideology, a group that advises the Pakistani government on whether they think laws align with Islam. The council advised that husbands could lightly beat their wives for offenses like refusing sex, not dressing as her husband wishes or not bathing after sex or menstruation, the Washington Post reports. Islam doesn’t preach [any] such thing, be it for a man o...r a woman. #TryBeatingMeLightly #domesticviolence

#Military #sexualassault survivors are being wrongfully discharged after reporting, as seen in the latest Human Rights Watch report http://ow.ly/xic8300nnec

TWO HOMES will help children - and parents - embrace even the most difficult of changes with an open and optimistic heart. #childrenofdivorce #divorce #amthor

Until my kids are adults, I am not their friend, she added. We are not on the same level. I’m the authority. My child’s well-being is more important to me than my child’s opinion of me. My job is not to be liked by my kid. With nearly 200,000 views on YouTube... #parenting #KristinaKuzmic #Amthor

While I am a divorce attorney, I face relationships that could be saved, if only...

WHAT IS YOUR ESTATE WORTH? (PART2) Who’s going to go through your underwear drawer? Who will care for your beloved cat or, more importantly, your dependent children? The first thing you need to do when planning your estate is to calculate your gross estate. Then you can employ different estate planning strategies based on the size and composition of your estate. ... #estateplanning

HOW MUCH IS YOUR ESTATE WORTH? Estate planning is all about what you want to have happen to you, your dependents, and your stuff when you’re gone. Estate planning also covers what happens if you’re alive but can’t make decisions for yourself. ... You may think that you don’t care what happens after you’re gone, but what about the family, friends, and stuff you leave behind? #estateplanning

Detroit Lions’ linebacker DeAndre Levy is asking his fellow athletes to man up and speak out against sexual violence. We’re essentially dealing with the problem by telling women to be more careful. And that’s bullshit.

The Pro's at Babble.com do it again with their Pizza n Wine Pairing. Magic. Pure magic. #pizza #wine #survingingbeingparents

In this humorous parenting blog entry, can you relate to these 5 STAGES OF PARENT SIZING UP PRE-PLAY DATE? #parenting #singleparents

Australian comedy duo recently whipped up one hilarious spoof video, in which Hamish dials in to a Parent Fantasy Hotline during a moment of desperation. He just needs an anonymous voice on the other end of the line to indulge him in a little fantasy he’s been harboring for some time now. A fantasy that has him slightly hot and bothered.... http://www.babble.com//parent-fantasy-hotline-perfectly-n/ See more

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Hold onto your Life Insurance with an irrevocable life insurance trust which shelters life insurance death benefit proceeds from estate taxes. After setting up the trust, you still have life insurance, and your beneficiary or beneficiaries still receive the proceeds from your policy upon your death. But now, estate taxes may not be a problem.

BENEFITS TO HAVING A TRUST:Avoiding taxes One common tax-saving trust is an irrevocable life insurance trust. After you die, the proceeds from your life insurance policy (the death benefit amount) are added back into your estate, often turning an estate that isn’t subject to federal estate taxes into an estate that needs to write a substantial check to the IRS!

Speaking of scripting...

TRUSTS are an important part of your estate plan when you want to leave money to your minor children. TRUSTS ensure that money, managed by a trustee, is set aside and made available to them when they reach a certain age. TRUSTS are often complex, time consuming to set up and oversee, and cost you money.

Exposing kids to the arts enriches their imagination and sense of wonder.

Are your kids asking for money? Cash? Dollas? What better way to earn it be being your Assistant...aka Mommy Helper. See #4. #kidsallowance #moneydoesnotgrowontrees

Child custody and support can be the most contentious elements in a divorce, but it serves your kids best if you can work things out. #divorce #childcustody #custody #estateplanning

Are you or someone you know contemplating Divorce? Be armed with all the information you need to make the best decisions for you and your family. Schedule your free consultation 925 516 4888 #divorce #custody

Divorce and child custody laws are complex. We can help you weed through the confusion. Schedule a free consultation. 925-516-4888 #custody #divorce #parentalrights

Are you setting too high a bar for your children?

How to Locate a Decedent’s Assets through Tax Returns: For an estate executor in the process of locating a decedent’s assets, the decedent’s prior tax returns may be a useful resource. These tax returns (and the supporting documentation) provide information regarding income and deduction, and may also help to eliminate items you thought the decedent owned but he or she actually didn’t. If you can’t locate these returns, you can request copies from the IRS. #probate #estateplanning

How to Decide between Voluntary Administration and Formal Probate: After you determine that an estate includes probate assets, you must decide whether you need the formal probate process to administer the estate or if voluntary administration is available to you. Voluntary administration may be available for you in your decedent’s state of domicile or any other state where administration is required. The extent of the estate’s assets usually determines whether formal probate is required or whether voluntary administration is an option. #probate #estateplanning

Have you had any of these health issues during or after being in an abusive relationship? Verbal abuse affects your health too! -he used to make fun of me becau...se I wore glasses -he made fun of me because I had lost so much weight -he actually made fun of my vehicle that I drove -when we would argue he would make fun of me for using "big words" because he didn't know what I was saying See more

My relative recently passed away, do I need to go through probate? Fortunately, California has a simplified probate procedure when the value of the decedent's personal property estate does not exceed, subject to certain exceptions, $100,000. This process is commonly referred to as "small estate affidavit" or "small estate declaration." Collection via small estate affidavit allows a person to receive an inheritance by presenting an affidavit or declaration to the holder of the decedent's personal property, a bank for example. It is one of the three methods for collecting small estates without a formal probate proceeding. The other two pertain to obtaining real property and are infrequently used. #probate #estateplanning

This dad shares his special bond by inspiring dad's everywhere.

Do you know How to Determine Tax Credits for an Estate or Trust? Tax credits are dollar-for-dollar amounts that you subtract from your tax liability; they’re better than deductions. Estates and trusts aren’t eligible for most tax credits that individuals can take, and no credit on Form 1041 can reduce the tax liability below zero. However, you have the opportunity to reduce the trust or estate’s tax liability with certain credits.... Don't battle the mire of Estate or Trust tax credits alone. #estateplanning #estatetaxes #trusttaxes #ECFLG #AttorneyMikeAmthor

A while back, I shared a FB Page called Life of Dad. The companion page is, naturally, Life of Mom where moms, single and not, can share experience, tips, struggles and help other moms find solutions. #singlemoms #moms #parenting #ECFLG

Married for 70years! If you're going to take advice from someone, I'm betting on this amazing couple. #marriage #divorce #estateplanning #wills

I LAUGHED OUT LOUD!

"He wanted a little boy and was sad when they said girl. But now they are inseparable!! He's telling her the parts under the truck and teaching her to say Cummi...ns! We love seeing pictures of dads with their kids and I wanted to share a special moment between daddy and daughter!" - Life of Dad user, Victoria Grant #LifeofDad

Did you see this? This was moving, powerful and heartfelt performance by a Survivor for Survivors about Surviving. #ladygaga #daterape #rape #sexualassault

The 4/160 ramp is open? IT'S OPEN! That's fantastic!!!

Cheating and getting caught is bad. Playing it out in front of the whole world is REALLY BAD. TV sweetheart Jennifer Garner breaks her silence about husband Ben Affleck cheating with the nanny. #jennifergarner #benaffleck #divorce

I ran into this great Facebook page while researching posts for this week. Basically, it's a page where DADS, single and married, can support dads, post questions, share experiences, ask for help, find help and support each other. Women are welcome. #lifeofdad #singledads #marriage #raisingkids

ADULTS ONLY WEDDINGS... Let's face it, kids can be a handful at weddings. Call the baby sitter and take the day/night off and have some adult fun. If you think this is selfish on the grounds that leaving the kids forces you to pay $ to the sitter AND $ for the wedding meal and gift, then you can pleasantly decline the offer. While YOU might not like the 'no kids' policy, it's not your wedding.... #nokidswedding #marriage #scarymommy

Straight from the pages of www.scarymommy.com Films from the 80's can help you bond with your tween and discuss important topics. Remember..."Nobody Puts Baby in the corner"!! ... #scarrymommy #tweens #movies #PGmovies

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If your spouse passes away without a valid will, do you need to file a petition to act as Administrator? You may have to. The administration process differs from state to state. #wills #estateplanning #probate #divorce

Estate planning is all about what you want to have happen to you, your dependents, and your stuff when you’re gone. Do you have it in writing? A will? An Executor? What is your estate worth? Who will take the children? What if you are not able to make your own medical decisions?... These are questions we can answer. #estateplanning #wills #probate

What are some top reasons relationships fall apart? #marriage #divorce #relationships #love

Who did Hilary Duff vacation with just days after her Divorce was final? #divorce #hilaryduff #singleparents

Jim and Elizabeth Carroll, you might remember them from their show 'Marriage Bootcamp: Reality Stars" have released a book that addresses the TOP 10 Marriage Killers. If the book is anything like the guidance they lend on the show, you'll be in good hands. #marriagebootcamp #marriage #topten Divorce Court #relationships

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