Colliss Law

If you or your ex are planning on moving across state lines or abroad, your divorce agreement and custody arrangement will probably have to take an additional layer of red tape into account. It's a good idea to make sure you know the relevant laws that will apply so that your arrangement will be honored by the authorities in both jurisdictions. #CAfamilylawyer

Financial strain is one of the most common causes of divorce, and second or third marriages are more likely to fail than first marriages. If you're thinking about tying the knot for a second time, or you just want to make sure you get it right the first time, it is key to have tough conversations about money and lifestyle beforehand. #CAfamilylawyer

A court can modify an alimony order if circumstances change, but generally will not do so if the changes were foreseeable at the time of the order. For example, courts generally consider retirement to be objectively foreseeable in any alimony order. If you're negotiating the terms of a divorce, discuss your plans for the future with your lawyer. #CAfamilylawyer

If you are in the process of ending a failed marriage, especially when there are children involved, you may not always feel like you are in control of your situation. Lawyers, judges, and (in some cases) family and child services are suddenly entering your private life, and you do not always have a say over decisions. One of the first ways you can take charge of your life is to document everything that is happening to you; take factual notes, keep a journal, take photos if you can - any evidence you can submit in the divorce or custody proceedings could help swing the decision in your favor. #CAfamilylawyer

Children have enough on their minds when their parents are going their separate ways. Help them adjust to this new period in their life by having a custody arrangement that puts their needs first. #CAfamilylawyer