Divorcing your Karma

Navigating High Conflict Divorce Borderline and Narcissistic Personalities You’re trying to take the high road. You’re trying to show a good example of collaboration and cooperation while going through the divorce and/or custody process, but your Ex, is doing the exact opposite! You want to react and throw back all of the negative, slanderous mud that’s been slung at you, but that little voice inside of your head (the one with the halo attached) has so far kept you in ...Continue reading

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The decision to divorce will most likely be one of the major decisions of your life. When potential family law clients come to my office, my go to plan is always to help them to restore their marriages. Unfortunately, the vast majority of my clients, by the time they are sitting in my office, have tried every route to save their marriage, and are at their wit’s end, and they believe that separation and divorce is their only option. At this stage, when my clients feel that t...hey have tried anything and everything to heal their marriage, I try to encourage and guide them to understand that how one ends a marriage, can often be one of the most, or THE most important chapters in the relationship. How one ends a marriage or long term partnership is the foundation upon which you are building your new lives. You want to build it correctly, so what you later build upon this site will be strong and lasting in other words, you want to build something that won’t come crashing down again. I do my best to help clients realize that they are still a family with their ex-partners; this is especially true when there are children involved they are still Mother, Father and Child(ren), and although they will now be "a family" living in separate homes, with potentially new family members (step-parents, new siblings) joining them, they are still for all intents and purposes, Family. If any of you are familiar with Parmahansa Yogananda, you will appreciate the following affirmation/prayer which he gave to help people who were struggling with the decision of divorce. If you aren’t familiar with Yogananda, you should be! I highly recommend his book Autobiography of a Yogi and any other of his writings that you can get into your hands and heart. In fact, a small brown box was given to the attendees of Steve Job’s memorial service on their way out from the memorial. It was the last thing Steve Jobs wanted all of his friends to think about. The box contained a copy of Paramahansa Yogananda’s book, Autobiography of a Yogi, a spiritual book that inspired Jobs throughout his life. It will inspire you too! HERE IS THE PRAYER/AFFIRMATION: Father, we came together in love. Teach us to live together in love, or, if it is Thy will, teach us to part in love and understanding. Parmahansa Yoganada