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Focusing On Yourself After Divorce

It’s Only Words Episode 135 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Remember when we’re kids and a common phrase was stick and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me. It seems in adulthood, we’ve forgotten this lesson. Divorce brings many words of anger that can’t be taken back. We spend much of our time being hurt by the other person’s words and the meaning we give them. Today, we’re going to remind you that words are only words and they can only hurt if you let them. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening! www.divorceuniversityonline.com/episode-135-its-only-words

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This is the key!

STEP FOUR: Regularly Take a Progress Inventory Episode 131 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Even when we get started on our goals, we can lose steam as days turn into weeks turn into months. Keeping track of your progress isn’t only important for measuring but for maintaining motivation. Most importantly, you need to celebrate your success and have grace for yourself when you fall short. This is particularly important during a life trial such as divorce. Join us as we help you push forward with your progress! For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Below is an article giving us 5 tips on going through divorce and we all need to be reminded of these 5 during points of our process. It can be difficult to stay on track and get through this hurdle in life but these 5 tips can help remind us of what we are trying to achieve. https://www.military.com//5-tips-lessen-financial-impact-o

If you are headed into court soon on your case, we have a 5 part blog series that goes into detail about what you must do when you go into court. Below is a link to part two which talks about being proactive. https://myfamilylawoffice.com/five-things-you-must-do-when/

One word, disengage!

Decision Making in Divorce Episode 111 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Do you have decision fatigue? Making decisions during divorce are particularly difficult because emotions are running high. In addition, the decisions required of you are often of a critical nature because they involve family, finances, and our future. So, how do you deal with all the emotions and rid yourself of brain fog so that you can make quality decisions that will serve you? Join us now to learn more. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

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Your Emotions Are Your Biggest Enemy in 2021 Episode 123 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. High emotions are common in divorce. After all, this is your family so who would expect you not to be upset. It is in this emotional state that many people hire an aggressive attorney or try to negotiate with their ex about the kids or money. This usually doesn’t go well. And the Court expects you to behave well even if you’re upset, so sometimes you can actually end up hurting your case. Join us now to learn how to avoid these emotional pitfalls. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Most people that have been in a relationship with a manipulative, controlling, or verbally abusive ex have trouble drawing a boundary and often struggle with po...or self-esteem. It took me eight years after my divorce to finally learn how to draw that boundary with my ex and regain control of my life and self-confidence. If you feel STUCK, like I did, then this divorce "take charge" challenge is going to move you further, faster. In this 5-day training, I'll share strategies to take charge in all aspects of your divorce: Your Emotions, Your Co-Parenting, Your Court Process, Your Finances, and most importantly, Your Future. It all starts January 13, 2021. Secure your spot now at: https://divorceuniversityonline.com/takechargechallenge

Helping Your Children with Transitions Episode 121 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The transition between two homes can be emotional for children. Depending on the child and their age, they may say they don’t want to go, they may cry, or have a fit. So, when should you worry? Should you ask your child why they don’t want to go? These strategies can often backfire, but there are many things you can do to help your child have a smoother transition. Join us now to learn these strategies! For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

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Register for our upcoming 5-Day Divorce "Take Charge" Challenge. Over the five days, we'll dive into taking charge of your emotions, your relationships, your court process, your finances, and your future. It all starts October 22. 2020 so register now at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/takechargechallenge

Managing Your Ex’s View of Your World Episode 110 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In order to achieve peace in your post-divorce life, it’s important to have strong boundaries. We want our ex’s to have a view of our world that communicates that we’re doing great, even though that is sometimes an illusion. But illusion or not, it’s important in achieving a separate world where you have your family life and they have theirs. In this episode, we’ll teach you how to pave the road for a happy post-divorce life and coparenting relationship. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Stopping The Arguments In Divorce

How to Stop the Argument that Never Ends Episode 108 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Is this how your arguments with your ex feel? As if your life has become one long, exhausting, constant argument? Good news! There is a solution and it begins with figuring out your argumentative style. Join us as we help you find your style and the more importantly, the solution. And thankfully the solution doesn’t require your ex’s cooperation. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Should I Hire an Aggressive Attorney? Episode 107 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We often hear people talk of needing an aggressive attorney. Let’s face it, we all have a friend or family member that knows the perfect aggressive attorney that will make our ex pay. But should you go that route? How do you know what attorney is right for you? Is it possible to hire an attorney and not lose complete control of your case? We answer all this and more in this week’s episode. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Stop Being Afraid! Episode 106 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Divorce is a life event that is full of change, uncertainty and fear. So many people become paralyzed by their fears, and yet divorce is also a time full of serious decision making. If you feel stuck or feel like no decision is better than a bad decision, then this episode is a must listen for you! We’re going to help you punch fear in the face and move forward with bold confidence! Are you ready? For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Here is a sneak peek of this week's podcast: Stop Being Afraid! Episode 106 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Divorce is a life event that is full of change, uncertainty and fear. So many people become paralyzed by their fears, and yet divorce is also a time full of serious decision making. If you feel stuck or feel like no decision is better than a bad decision, then this episode is a must listen for you! We’re going to help you punch fear in the face and move forward with bold confidence! Are you ready? For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com.Tune in on Tuesday September 15, 2020 for the full episode!

Here's a sneak peek of this week's upcoming podcast on how to deal with fear in divorce. Don't forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel for more previews!

Stop the Madness! Episode 105 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Has your court case become a runaway freight train? Are you up to your eyeballs in attorney fees? We often see this problem after people have become weary from the extended battle of divorce. The good news is, you can stop the insanity. Are you ready to learn how? For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Leaving an Abusive Spouse In Episode 102 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we give you some things to think about in planning your exit. Leaving is never an easy decision, but neither is staying in an abusive relationship. We have seen many cases where people struggled more after leaving due to lack of planning in advance. We discuss, timelines, the Court process, and try to give you an overview of what to expect. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Do You have Court-Sponsored Child Custody Mediation Coming Up? Preparation is Key! Watch this video to help you prepare.